"One should never judge a book by its cover" says the over used phrase. I'm not so sure. There are always circumstances where the situation completely warrants it. For example:

"Gee, that dog looks rabid. Ah well, I don't know that for certain! I'll just give him a nice, love pat."

Darwin Award material.

When I began working at the Park Place a year and a half ago, I was escorted around by a girl named Jill. Jill was a slender, blonde girl who was in all manners, quite breath-taking. If there would be a single thing I would have to say she really taught me, it would have to be - sigh... not to judge a book by its cover. The thought never crossed my mind that I would someday find a friend in Jill, especially one I could count on so heavily.

Our friendship would build over several (hundred) cups of coffee and would hang in the smoky haze above our heads as we took hits from our Camels and Marlboro Lights. It was slow going at first. We would comment on each other's hair. Next, she would notice that my socks would never match. Whether it was negative or positive, when she had a word to say I would listen. After a short while, I found myself wanting her to talk just so I could listen.

And whenever I needed her, she was there to offer well worn advice and a sympathetic ear.

Now as I reflect through this hectic (and emensely enjoyable) 18 months at the Park Place, I can't imagine what it would have been like without Jill sneaking around somewhere (usually with me).

I dread the thought of going a week without seeing my friend.

She's the first person I really talked to. On my first day I relied so heavily on her. Now that Alain is gone, she's relying on me. It's an honor.

Jill: Tonight when you said "Steph, thanks for being such a good friend", that was one of the greatest things anyone has ever said to me. I want to thank you right back.

I want you to know that you are a beautiful person, inside and out. Your personality sparkles and completely dazzles me. You are strong! You are confident! You can do it with or without Alain! YOU ARE A STAR!